Services at NNLS

SHABBAT SERVICES :
Kabbalat Shabbat - Main morning service - Hakol Olin - Childrens' services - Mincha & Seudah Shlishit

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Weekdays - Festivals - Youth - Other services at NNLS

 

In all our services we aim to match the vision of the synagogue, to provide welcome and encouragement and to stimulate inspiration and involvement. We try to combine an atmosphere of concentration with friendly informality. We encourage as many members as possible to take an active role in our services and to learn the skills to do so.

Men and women
The custom of our 'main' service is that men and women sit on opposite sides of the synagogue, with no mechitzah; only men lead the service, although women do read some of the English prayers and give sermons. Other services also take place within the community, Hakol Olin (the synagogue's fully egalitarian service), Assif (an informal fully egalitarian chavura), and the Women’s Tefillah (for women only); these are described in more detail below.

Liturgy
All NNLS services follow the traditional liturgy, using the Singer’s Prayer Book with a few variations sanctioned by Masorti halacha. For example, in the opening blessings of shacharit both men and women say the positive formula “Who has made me in His image”, and we do not repeat the Musaf amidah.

Children
We provide a range of children’s services (see details below), and for the very young there is a shelf of story books to keep them occupied during the service.

Sermons
It is a tradition of the synagogue to have an open pulpit; the rabbi gives slightly over half the sermons with the balance given by both men and women from the community or by invited guests. The sermon givers are encouraged in learning, and the audience has an opportunity to hear a wide variety of people each with something new to say.

Visitors
We welcome guests (including children) to our services. We provide a sheet with details of forthcoming events in our community, and we distribute Reflections, the Masorti commentary on the sedra of the week. For non-Jewish visitors we offer booklets explaining the Shabbat morning service.

Disabled access
Unfortunately, in our current site access for the disabled is not good, with the synagogue accessible only by stairs. Help in climbing stairs will be willingly provided.

Our services
Below are brief details about our various services. We hope that we will have the opportunity of welcoming you to one of these. Please check the times if possible before you come, since we occasionally vary these.

 

Shabbat

Friday Night: Kabbalat Shabbat
We hold this service at 6:30pm throughout the year. On the first Shabbat of each secular month we hold a special family Friday night with songs and a story for children; there is a kiddush after these. About four times a year we hold a communal Oneg Shabbat meal, often with a special theme. These have to be booked ahead.

Shabbat Morning
Our Shabbat morning main service usually begins at 9:30am. We often have additional speakers or events such as study sessions during or after the service (details are published in our diary and monthly newsletter). We are privileged in our community to have many opportunities to include in our services baby namings, bnei mitvah, and auf rufs (please contact the synagogue as far as possible in advance if you wish to celebrate one of these.) From time to time we have a separate explained service, where a section of prayer is preceded by an explanation on history, context, and meaning.

Hakol Olin
Held at the same time as the main service, the shul's egalitarian service, called Hakol Olin from a Talmudic phrase meaning 'All are called', is held on Shabbat morning about once every three weeks, sometimes more often if required for a barmitzvah or batmitzvah. Men and women may participate equally in leading the prayers and in reading from the Torah. In addition, there is a mixed seating area as well as separate seating for men and women. In other respects, Hakol Olin follows the custom of the main synagogue.

Shabbat Afternoon
We usually have a seudah shlishit (third sabbath meal) at the home of a member of the community. This will include the mincha service, a light meal, and a talk on a text or topical subject. Times vary during the year, but are usually about two hours before the end of Shabbat. The seudah shlishit offers an opportunity to combine prayer and study with meeting members of the community in an informal setting. We often also have a mincha service at the synagogue, particularly when we are celebrating a batmitzvah or barmitzvah.

 

Childrens' Shabbat Services

Each Shabbat we have

1. A Toddlers' Service for ages 0 to 4
- songs, stories and fun to familiarise the toddlers with the ideas and rituals of Shabbat. One adult must stay with their toddler during this service.

2. A Service for ages 5 to 8 - more formally a service than the toddlers', but no less fun, as children learn the significance of the week's parsha, the time in the Jewish year and get to know more of the "mechanics" of prayer.

3. A Service for ages 9 to 11 - the children run this service themselves with guidance from an adult. More closely allied to the format of the adult service, the children practice the formalities of leyning, aliyot and shul procedure. They are also encouraged to delve more deeply into textual study and investigate key issues from the week's parsha.

All childrens' services
• Start at 11:00 am for one hour
• Take place in the upper rooms of the Manor House
• End with a yummy kiddush

Full details and timings for childrens' services on festivals are published in the newsletter.
Please note: The service leaders are only responsible for the safety of the children whilst they are present in the service.

 

Weekday services

Shacharit
We hold shacharit services every Sunday at 8:30am and every Monday and Thursday at 7:00am. Note that, particularly on bank holidays, times and the venue may change. We ask all members to attend one of these services about twice a year (men are on a rota), so that we can ensure a minyan to support those who are saying kaddish.

 

Festival services


We hold services on all festivals and recognised memorial days, including Yom Hashoah, Holocaust Memorial Day, and Yom Ha'atzmaut, Israel’s Independence Day. The synagogue newsletter has full details of times and arrangements. We regret that for Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur services we can accept only ticketholders, for reasons of space. Tickets are generally sold in advance to non- members (and are free to members).

We try to arrange a variety of study and communal events around each festival so as to involve as many people as possible.

 

Youth Services

For school years 8, 9, and 10, the Youth Services are held about once a month on Shabbat and also on festivals. The format varies, but they generally combine parts of the full service with serious discussions.See the shul newsletter for details.

 

Other services at NNLS

Assif
This is a separate minyan sharing our premises under the Masorti umbrella. Assif meets every Shabbat morning and aims to offer traditional egalitarian services that are also highly participative, build the skills and knowledge of those that attend, and provide an uplifting spiritual experience.

Services for special needs
NNLS holds an annual Memorial Service for Our Lost Babies. Usually held in January or February, this is open to all who have ever, at any time, lost a new baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after the birth, whatever the circumstances (other members of the family, and family friends, as well as the parents of the baby, are welcome to attend). The service takes the form of mincha, with added readings and the memorial prayer; there is an opportunity to recite the mourners' kaddish, and to light a memorial candle if you wish. The names of the babies - or their parents - may be written in a memorial book, which is read during the service.